Navigating the financial aspects of senior living

When the time has come that you or a loved one needs assistance, here's how to make sure you can afford it.

If you have decided that you or your loved one need help with activities of daily living, you've already completed perhaps the most emotionally taxing step in the process. For many people, another difficult step is figuring out the financial aspects of shifting from an independent living environment to the next level of care. The process can be complicated-but that's where we come in.

Our senior living communities provide all-inclusive care that provides housekeeping, meals, transportation, and entertainment. Because these things are included in your monthly rent, without the recurring costs associated with owning and maintaining your own home, you may find that senior living is more affordable than you thought.

"Finances - 'how am I going to be able to pay for this?' - that's always our residents' first concern," said Placement Specialist Sarah Ingram, of Best Life for Seniors.

Our goal is to provide you with a framework and the tools to help you navigate the financial aspect of your journey. 

The costs associated with assistance with activities of daily living or memory care can be significant. Unfortunately, those figures can induce a kind of "sticker shock," which can deter people from seeking the care that would improve their overall quality of life, health, and safety.

But it doesn't have to be that way. Help is available.


There are two main ways to pay for full-time senior care services: private pay and assisted pay.


Of the two approaches to payment for care, private pay is the most straightforward. Simply put: monthly fees are paid in full out of pocket.

Those with the means to do so foot the bill themselves, perhaps with help from friends or family. At some communities and in certain states, private pay is the only payment method available.


When a prospective resident inquires about our community, one of the first things we ask is whether they or their spouse have a military background.

"We ask them whether they, or their spouse, were in the service, because so many of our residents did serve this nation in the World War II and Vietnam eras," Hollie Black, of Best Life for Seniors said.

Aid & Attendance Benefits

Veterans, and their spouses, who served during specific time periods are entitled to government benefits designated to help pay for the cost of assisted living and memory care services. The benefits can be significant: up to $3,253 per month, tax-free, for veterans and their families.

The requirements vary somewhat depending on when the veteran served, but some of the basic requirements are listed below:

Minimum Service

Ninety (90) days during a period of war as outlined by the United States Department of Veterans Affairs (VA).

Wartime Service Dates

World War I: April 6, 1917 - Nov. 11, 1918

World War II: Dec. 7, 1941 - Dec. 31, 1946

Korean War: June 27, 1950 - Jan. 31, 1955

Vietnam War: Aug. 5, 1964 - May 7, 1975

Gulf War: Aug. 2, 1990 - through a future date to be set by law or Presidential Proclamation. 

The veteran is not required to have served in combat-if a veteran was stationed in Kansas in 1952, not Korea, that would still count.

Veterans who served during the Gulf War era are required to have twenty-four (24) months of service, or a "full tour."

Age / Status

To be eligible for Veteran-Directed Care, veterans must be 65 years old or be designated "unemployable" (veterans designated "unemployable" tend to be receiving Social Security Disability benefits already).

Discharge Status

Honorable or medical discharge.

Unfortunately, it can be difficult for some veterans to access their benefits. Many veterans who try to navigate the VA system themselves, but either don't hear back from the VA or are denied coverage by the VA due to a discharge issue. However, it is possible to petition the VA for a change of discharge status.

Additionally, few veterans describe the VA system as "user-friendly."

Maybe you, or your loved one, has encountered a VA-related roadblock. Maybe you haven't yet begun the process, but you are aware that it can be time-consuming and difficult.

For those seeking assistance navigating the VA's system of benefits, we recommend working with our partners at Patriot Angels, because having experts on your side can make all the difference.

Patriot Angels

Patriot Angels is a Tennessee-based non-profit organization that specializes in helping veterans navigate the VA system to receive the benefits they have earned through their service.

"We help veterans and their spouses and widows supplement the cost for senior living. Our first goal is to educate families," said Patriot Angels Special Project Manager Erin Walker. "About eight of ten veterans and their spouses don't know these benefits exist."

The United States Department of Veterans Affairs doesn't advertise the benefits and doesn't make the process to obtain the benefits easy.

"We just don't want someone to automatically rule themselves out," Walker said. "Do not rule someone out based on information you've heard in the past. That's why we're here: to help you answer these questions."

Patriot Angels asks that veterans send whatever discharge documents they have in order to help the non-profit identify service dates and discharge status. Patriot Angels also looks for key dates to establish eligibility for benefits.

One of the main reasons that it is important for veterans and their spouses to go to Patriot Angels early in the process is to avoid financial missteps, like missing out on funds that can pay for care. Their mission to help make sure you remain financially secure. And it's important to note that there is absolutely no need to spend down all of your money before making that call to Patriot Angels.

"Veterans usually come to us when they're getting moved in and they need extra money each month to help pay for the care they need - it expedites the process when the veteran is already living in the community," Walker said. "Our goal is to be able to assist families. We can usually do it in about thirty to forty-five days. The VA side of the process usually takes about one hundred and twenty days, but the VA will reimburse veterans for expenses incurred during that wait time after the process has officially begun."

Patriot Angels has provided invaluable help to many of our residents, and they're able to help people access their benefits quickly.

"Most of the people we work with are eligible for Aid and Attendance benefits," Ingram said. "Working with Patriot Angels makes the process so much quicker than going straight through the VA without any additional support."

For more information, call the Patriot Angels at (844) 757-3047, or go to their website at patriotangels.com.

Alternative Assets

When the time comes to work out how to pay for long-term care, it's important to explore all available options. It is easy to overlook other sources of funding that work well for many people.

Life Insurance

Some people have life insurance policies that can be sold, converted, or liquidated through a viatical settlement. A viatical settlement is an arrangement whereby an individual sells their life insurance policy to a third party for less than its mature value in order to benefit from the proceeds while still alive. 

Alternatives to Selling Your Home

Many residents sell their homes as they transition to long-term care. For others, it makes more financial sense to take out a reverse mortgage or to open a home equity line of credit. Another option is to rent out your home in order to fund your care.

INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY: The materials and information on this website have been prepared or assembled by the Community and are intended for informational purposes only. The information is general in nature and is not intended to be, and should not be relied upon as, legal advice. Some of the information may be out-of-date and may not reflect the most current legal developments regarding the relevant subject areas. This website contains information on legal issues and is not a substitute for legal advice from a qualified attorney licensed in the appropriate jurisdiction. The financial aspects of paying for assisted living can be complicated, and the Community urges you to consult an attorney or specialist in elder law in your state to help you navigate these issues. The Community expressly disclaims all liability with respect to actions taken or not taken based on information contained or missing from this website.

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